although human hearing is down to 20Hz, I honestly wonder how well the majority listening devices (whether i-Pod or typical car stereo) accurately reproduces the LF. Bass response with earbuds (as I understand it) is exaggerated due to proximity, and when I think about songs with excessive LF (rap as an example) I tend to feel the subs and perhaps this is what we perceive to a greater extent
When you consider that it's common to roll off LF (at whatever shelf your tastes like) much of the very low end is cut
many subs have x-over point at ~ 80 Hz and low end cut-off is a combination of speaker response/speaker cabinet response, and the listening environment (room,car, outdoors), as a great many listeners do not have subs, the reproduction is now limited by the lower freq response of the woofer (or largest driver)... and like most ranges, accuracy tends to drift as you approach the outer limits
coupled with how many bass players play the absolute lowest freqs and how few people have subs, you'd need to to prioritize 'who" your mixes are targeting.
I tend to EQ scuplt out spaces the kick and bass, so that each have a share of the LF, but don't compete... and I pan a bit differently, whereas the 'norm" for many seems to be to pan both down the middle. An exciter set to the low freq can also help to make them "stand out" a bit more, and there are some "sub" plug-in around ( may simply be a LF exciter)
all a matter of taste
Do you have sub with monitors?