ahh, I see. DP is similar, but the "work around" is rather simple, I can send the Aux channel to a 'regular channel and solo there (in fact I do this sometimes as an alternative to side chaining, but to be honest I usually set the drum aux verb (and a separate compressor aux for the drums) so they are set to sit within the mix, but, yes, i can understand the frustration... seems an easy fix
One of the reasons that I started looking to over from PT was the proprietary hardware (which has changed with 9), as well as the price jump to move from LE to HD (I started with PT on an 001 on PT 4.2)... the latency issues really PISSED ME OFF... and the fact that some plug-ins were only HD... I felt i was being held hostage
I'll admit I originally bought into the "industry standard" thing... but I think that's now merely a grasping marketing attempt (IMHO)... and the "shape of things to come" is smaller (many in home) studio's are replacing the big studios. Granted a big live room with iso booths is something to behold, but a lot of people are getting great results from smaller rooms and less elaborate set-ups.
I thin much of the finished sound lies in
first off, a decent room, acoustic treatment is grossly overlooked and under appreciated..... no wonder as it's still very much a trial and error enigma for most
1) the skill of the engineer, coupled with a savvy producer
2) good sinal chain (mics and pre, mics and pres, ... did I mention mics and pres?)
3) converters and the clock... in the digital domain, this is damn important
2 and 3 really play a big role. Marketing hype really pushes the "sounds as good as something costing much ....)... but there is a reason the high end gear costs what it costs. I pooh-pooh the "expensive crap for years... but have to admit, a lot of my mixing (and mastering) issues lessened greatly as the gear got better
is it a guarantee your recording will be ABSOLUTELY AMAZING?
nope, for the same reason buying a Les Paul Gold Top and a Marshall stack won't make you sound like Page (or anybody else if you copy their set-up)
but lets face it, the lure of recording the next #1 hit in the luxury of your bedroom sells a lot of stuff

OK... I'll get off my soap box